Stop Looking for a Silver Bullet … You Are the Answer You Seek

There is no silver bullet.

Read that again: there is no silver bullet. 

Your need to find the answer in the form of a one-hit-wonder is getting in your way. So, is the need for instant gratification, outside validation, approval and anything (and everything) else that pulls you away from the true essence of yourself. 

Now, while you may need assistance getting there, the actual answer (and “silver bullet”) lives within you. The good news: you have access to it now. The only thing you need to do is remember.

So, how does one go about remembering?

Whether it’s in coaching, therapy, a training program, a leadership book, or anything else … the real work often comes after the session, the training, or the book itself is done.

These tools can be a catalyst to ignite the flame to help you remember, and tend to, the fire within. But, likely not in the way you think they can. 

Magic happens in the space in between.

As Claude Debussy once said, “Music is the space between the notes.”

Meaning, the real work comes in the spaces … where there is breath to reflect, contemplate, and make room for inspiration. Space is necessary.

It’s a function of integration.

I recently did a very raw episode with a former client of mine, Karianne Munstedt, where we talk about our coaching together, her journey, and how inspiration dropped in for her after our “work” was complete … or, at least, after the first round of our work together.

You can tune into the full episode here: 

https://youtu.be/kdnH1E5XQUc?si=qKiWhlo24WPQuS3U 

In this episode, we discuss the work we did together, how we used Human Design in the process, and what happened as a result of Karianne slowing down and listening in the space in between our work.

For, it was when she allowed herself to be still that she was truly able to listen to the voice within. From which, inspiration had a place to land. 

That’s the magic in activations … they take time. 

It’s not about finding your silver bullet. 

The truth is: YOU are your own silver bullet. The “work” is to help activate you remembering that so you can access your own power, and answers.

It’s in accessing this power that inspiration has a place to land. The gentle (and sometimes, not so gentle) space in between.

Again, this is where the notes in music are birthed.

Too often I see people searching, seeking, and desperate to find the answers outside themselves. They come to me looking for “the” answer.

What they often fail to reason is there is no “the” answer. 

There is only our choices. And, with that, our ability to make choices that are aligned with our soul’s calling or not. 

We are here, as humans, to experiment and experience. To test, sample, and savor. The laboratory looks different for each of us. And, within that lab, there is an infinite array of possibilities and potentials to play with. 

To think that there is some silver bullet is to hold a scarcity mindset. 

To think that someone else has the answers you need just exasperates that. It’s not someone else’s job, even that of a coach or therapist, to find your answers. Their role is to be a catalyst and guide to help you learn to do that for yourself. The answers you seek are always within.

You know what your soul needs to carry out it’s soul curriculum and purpose. You’ve simply forgotten. You’ve allowed yourself to get sucked in, as we all do, into limiting beliefs and old paradigms. 

It’s the conditioning holding you back. 

Whether it be through your imprinting (what you experienced as a child for those closest to you), your generational traumas that have been handed down through your family lineage (including some of your fears and mindset), or the programming you receive … you’ve simply lost your way.

The work is about finding your way and remembering what you already know to be true and carry within your heart. 

For me and my clients, Human Design and Gene Keys has been a powerful tool in bringing us back home to ourselves … to remembering who we are, and how we are here to operate in the world and serve others. 

There’s deeper activations we create space for when we tap back into our own energetic blueprint and innate wiring. 

For we live in a rather noisy world. 

And, it’s easy to get sucked into old narratives and paradigms, to other people’s version of who they think you should, and limit your potential and ability to fully express yourself, as a result. 

The time has come to stop playing small. 

If you are ready to do the real work, to lean into the discomfort that comes in full surrender, being patient to have faith in where the work will lead you, then the outcome can be far more expansive than you can imagine. 

Trust the process, as it takes time. Real integration is a journey, not a destination. It’s only when you give your work breath and space that the true magic can be activated. When you do, inspiration will come. 

Ready to tap into a tool to help you activate your own inner GPS, and help you remember who you truly are? Get your FREE Human Design chart and FREE summary report here: https://www.candybarone.com/HD-chart